 Believe the child |
 A child rarely lies about sexual abuse.
When a child appears to be "making up" a story about sexual abuse, it usually signals a cry for help. |
| Get Help |
| If there is physical injury or if the abuse occurred within the past few days, seek medical assistance promptly. Contact the Department of Human Services or the police to report the situation. |
| Stay in control |
| Your fear and anger is normal, but young children may misunderstand and be frightened by your strong reactions. Let the child know your responses are not directed at him or her. |
| Support the child |
| Give reassurance by telling the child he or she was right to tell you and that what happened is not
his or her fault. Reassure the child that no harm will come to him or her because you have been told about the abuse. It helps to let the child ask questions and give answers that are truthful and understandable, including "I don't know." |
